Start embracing different seasons in your life.

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It’s funny how we easily recognize the seasons around us. We know when it’s sweater weather, when to plan beach holidays, or even when mangoes magically flood the market. We even track that of animals like clockwork: migration season, mating season, hibernation we know it all. But when it comes to our own seasons? The internal shifts, the in-betweens, the slowdowns, and the growth, we barely pause to notice them. It's like we expect ourselves to be in perfect motion. Funny, and also a little unfair to ourselves. Don’t you think so?

It's becoming harder for people to stay in tune with themselves, let alone recognize the unique seasons they’re in. When you understand the season you're in, you stop feeling like you're behind or out of place. And even when those feelings creep in, you’re quicker to remind yourself, I’m on my own path. With that awareness, your decisions start to shift. They feel more aligned, more grounded. You become intentional with your time, your energy, and your care. You learn to prioritize yourself, not out of selfishness, but out of self-respect.

And the best part? Every season has the power to shape you. You get to choose whether it breaks you or builds you. When you're fully present, you don’t just go through change, you evolve with purpose.

A little roadmap to be more aware of your seasons...

1. Reflect on your current state in life, what are you currently going through? How are you feeling?
2. Name the season you are in - perhaps it's your healing season, the season to reinvent yourself and so much more.
3. Ask yourself what can you control in your current season? this includes your mindset, attitude, character, actions, who you surround yourself with, your routine, your time, and effort.
4. Check what is out of your control- this can be people's opinions and assumptions, how they perceive you, and their actions. Past events, and uncertainties that come in life.
5. Accepting and Adjust- It does you no good when you live in denial, no matter how uncomfortable or hard your season is, you have to take the step of accepting it as it is with an open heart and mind without judging yourself. The next thing you should do is adjust accordingly to the pace of your season. If you're in a quiet phase, you have to slow down, if you are you're in a go mode lean into it.
6. Identify the values and skills you want to get from your season- Remember as we had discussed earlier we are responsible for making a choice of whether to allow the season to make us or break us. 

Life is a journey of seasons, and none is permanent. Each one brings its own lessons, challenges, and growth. We sometimes are blooming, sometimes we’re resting, and sometimes we’re shedding what no longer serves us. Understanding this natural flow can bring peace, knowing that everything has its time. Embrace where you are right now, and trust that the next season will bring something new and valuable.

Life is beautiful and you're exactly where you are meant to be!!

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