It's funny how people always say, we all have a choice, that it's okay to have different perspectives and opinions, but the fact is, people only say so if your opinion aligns with theirs, if whatever you're saying validates them and doesn't challenge their belief system!!🍵
Yooooh guys, I don't think I would want to be an influencer coz tell me why, there's a babe I love watching, and she was talking about how her views on contraceptives have changed, and there's a lady in the comments saying how influencers are fake because they say one thing and do things different. I was like, gurl influencers aren't gods, they are human, you need to do what works for you. Every choice has a consequence.🌼
You know, it's about time we realize that there's a difference between good communication and surveillance. Especially for people who crave good and genuine communication, just be careful!!
What really breaks good people is looking at the world with the eye of how it should be rather than how it is. I saw this post on Pinterest and honestly, I can relate 💯
Gosh, the struggle of not taking things personally is crazy, coz what do you mean I don't take things personally, it's pissing me off!! Especially experiencing rejection even in subtle ways, like somebody not saying hey back. I had to learn this trick that's been helping me so far. This is what I tell myself "When they say no to me, they're just saying yes to themselves." And who wouldn't want to say yes to themselves?🍂
I'm not falling for holding on to people because I don't know who they'll become in the future or because of how much success they have right now and maybe just maybe they gonna help me succeed. Hell naw!! If they're toxic I'm out🌈
So, today I heard someone say shame is a mindset, stay tuned Imma tell you how it goes coz yoh!😂
Guys, why don't people talk about information paralysis, like for real you can become an information junkie without realizing it. The worst part is that, even with all that information you can't take action you feel paralyzed.😑 I'll definitely talk about this in my next post!
Okay, I admit, I've never finished a self-help book my whole life, honest, I always read a chapter or two and that's it. Why? I have no idea. Anyone else like me?🫣
As a lover girl, one of the hardest lessons I've heard to learn is decentering men. Honestly, I love it😁
I've realized that, those who started with crocheting they say knitting is hard and those who started with knitting say crocheting is hard🧶
I think it's funny how, you could have 1000 positive comments but your mind is focusing on one negative comment🫣
Sometimes we are the best to people but not to ourselves damn😑
Some of y'all should stop relying on people to complete you, be your happiness darling😏
Walking away from someone and something that no longer serves you is real power🌟
May peace and grace find you wherever you are🌼
It's about time we start speaking to ourselves and less hearing ourselves. I mean, less hearing the negative inner self talk and start speaking life, hope, blessings to yourself🌈
It's about time we start holding people accountable and stop making excuses for them😏
One of the best things I'm learning right now is practicing opposite action🍂
Fine, you're searching for the one, but are you the one for the one?👀
Remember honey, your worth and Identity aren't tied to whether you have a job or not!😁
No matter how good or sweet you are, sometimes you have to be petty and give people a taste of their own medicine 😂
Baby, take yourself out on dates, buy yourself gifts, pamper yourself fully you know why, because you need to FILL UP YOUR CUP FIRST!😚
Omggg knitting is so therapeutic!🤗
Listeeen, not every hobby breeds a star or creates financial freedom, honey, enjoy that hobby don't let your creativity die off, just have fun!!
Stop👏 feeling guilty for buying yourself pricey and nice things just because you didn't grow up having them! You deserve good things!!
Honestly, the concept of searching for the other half is messed up, coz now you'll be living your life but still feeling incomplete. It's like if you don't have a boo you aren't living life fully. Honey stop searching for the other half, you aren't half, you are complete you are whole🤗
I feel like the phrase be confident in your own skin, also applies to your hair type, your body, features, your personality in short be confident in who you are as a whole🤗
I can't stress this enough, listen to your instincts!!😊
What if you turn your unemployment Era to your creative Era?👀
It's funny how people without locs will come and tell you what you should and shouldn't do with your hair😂
You gotta fight for what you want and the change you want in your life, I not necessarily talking about external fights, nope I'm talking about the inner battles, the fight with self sabotage, fear of getting out of your comfort zone and so much more😁
listen, everything that's meant for you, will find you in it's own time. When it comes, you won't feel confused, you'll be at peace.😚
I started praying from the point of gratitude even when I didn't have what I wanted yet, and that small shift did wonders. Gratitude breeds blessings 😁
God is good all the tiiime.😀
I heard something so powerful today, "Don't chase your dreams, become them."😚
Babyyyy have confidence in yourself, trust me, it has to start from within.😩
Propaganda I'm not falling for that your husband is your first child yoooh wtf!!😑
Btw did you loose yourself, or did you just evolve, maybe it's both?👀
Honey, you can't feel bad or jealous of someone or something they have if you don't want it. In short, if you ever feel some type of way, ask yourself what are you lacking? What do you want?❤️
I wish strict parents knew that, stricking a balance with their kids is way better than power play and mind control. Coz you they are raising traumatized kids!!💯
It's funny how the older generation be like"You'll lose your parents and elders blessings" if you don't do what they want, but honey that doesn't scare me because I'm trynna break generational curses, so why would I want to get blessings from the generation with curses and deep trauma!! Spear me please! God will bless me directly😚
Babe, don't chase your dreams become them.😩
Be okay with making people uncomfortable by being yourself.💯
You can't expect the best from people, and you're literally being the worst to yourself.😚
Hey you, are you giving yourself a break.❤️
I honestly feel like postgrad depression isn't really talked about enough😑
Today I heard the most beautiful thing from Tiktok: "Stop comparing your chapter 2 to someone's chapter 10. "In short, be patient with yourself and focus on your own path😚
They say don't be into your feelings too much, they also say it's okay to be sensitive. What do y'all really want?😅
The truth is, people will always praise you for your courage, your maturity until you challenge their mindset!😏
I honestly feel like we live in a narcissistic society where grace and empathy is no longer on the table. It's always about me! me! me! me! "Yes, I'm being a jerk but as long as I'm happy that's all that matters"😑
People who like raising their voice when talking to others, what's up with that?👀
Some of y'all need to find yourselves first before getting into relationships!😚
Another propaganda I'm not falling for is people going to spiritual leaders when they have marriage problems, rather than going for couples therapy!🫣
You're instincts will not lie to you💯
I've honestly noticed that, if you just live in the moment and let go of things you can't control, everything just falls into place!😏
Maybe I'm expecting too much from you because I would do that for you!😩
I feel like, it's unfair how we only allow ourselves to experience or feel things in extremes. I mean very high or very low. We no longer embrace or enjoy the simple pleasures of life😑
I find it much better and easier to make a decision from the point of "I want to or I don't want to, I choose to, freedom." Rather than from a place of fear. 😌
People keep asking me why I keep rewatching The originals and I say it's for the plot. The plot🫣>>>
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Honey life isn't group work, stop comparing your life with that of others!😑
I've observed something for a while now, and it's people pleasing doesn't come out of nowhere it starts from home💔
To be honest, I really don't want to turn any of my hobbies to sources of income, I feel like they are my escape from this crazy ass world💯
As if comparing wins isn't bad enough, people now start comparing traumas and struggles to see who got it worse, liiike😑
Understanding what or who your greatest source in life is, is very important, mine is God😌
Can we learn to listen to our guts, AND STOP OVER-ANALYZING THE DETAILS!😩
The fact is, perspective is everything once you change it, so many things become irrelevant!☺️
No, she's not difficult, or crazy she's just the eldest daughter!😏
One thing I've noticed is that, some people don't really understand what friendship means. People actually want fans not friends!😌
It's so sad how people are going to therapy solely to weaponize it, not to actually be better😑
It's crazy how the society normalizes a woman's pain, they call it being strong, NO! She wants peace and happiness too😩
Sometimes all you need is freedom from routine 😏
One of the biggest lessons I've learnt is, people know what they're doing, stop trying to make excuses for them😑
Applaud yourself for having the guts and audacity to go after what you want☺️
It's honestly sad how society teaches women to be polite no matter what and not how to stand up for themselves😩
What I've come to learn is that dating the wrong person can be and will be crabs in a bucket mentality for you😥
Honey don't suppress, ADDRESS!!💯
That moment when you're just, tired😩