Right Now Counts, Even if it's quiet.

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Loving who you are right now as you work towards who you want to become is easier said than done. We all have that mental image of how great our future selves are supposed to be. It might be the creation of wealth, excellent health, a stable family, fitness, muscle gain, great hair, traveling the world, a great career, or even a loving relationship that just feels right. But when you look at your reality honestly it's just sad, you literally feel like you are in an alternate universe!! And even worse you feel like they are just unattainable.

Maybe, it feels hard to love yourself right now because the you right now isn't that pleasant in your eyes. Maybe, you see yourself as lazy simply because you haven’t achieved everything you hoped for. Trust me it's okay to feel uncomfortable in your current state what matters  is how you respond to the feeling( are you going to feel sorry for yourself and give up, or are you going to push through and work towards your goals?)

Sometimes, you just have to remind myself that it's okay to just be where you are. Not everything has to be a rush to the next big thing. I know people say “be delulu, it’ll get you through,” but honestly, pretending everything’s perfect when it’s not doesn’t always help. It's better to start acknowledging the truth of where you are, even if it’s messy, confusing, or far from where you thought you’d be.

Lately, I’ve also been trying to appreciate small wins more. I mean, in a world obsessed with big reveals and overnight success, it’s so easy to overlook the tiny, steady efforts that no one actually knows about. But those little steps? They matter. A lot more than we give them credit for.

And maybe the hardest part? Being kind to yourself even when you feel like you don't deserve it. Not beating myself up for how long it’s taking or for not having it all figured out. Iearn to treat yourself like you would a friend, patiently, gently, with encouragement instead of criticism. That shift alone feels like a form of healing.

I know this might sound cliché, but take your time and focus on progress. Sure, you have a clear vision of the future you want but don’t forget the journey and the person you become along the way matter just as much, if not more.
So, embrace the small wins, be kind to yourself, and trust the process. Growth isn’t about rushing to the finish line, it’s all about evolving, learning, and becoming stronger with each step. Keep going darling you’re getting there!

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